Reproductive CHOICE.   What does it mean to you?

In an ideal world, we all hope that a woman becomes pregnant only when she is ready to start a family.  Even in the best of circumstances, raising children is both challenging and wonderful – for many women, it’s the best and the hardest job she’ll ever have.

Do you think Mothers don’t have negotiating skills?  Watch one cleverly maneuver her seven year old into choosing only one after school sport.  Leadership qualities?  Mothers (and Fathers) become highly skilled at leading their families through the minefield of school, friends, successes and challenges.

Never, ever, get between a Mother of any species and her child and threaten to harm the child.  Mothers can produce a rage to rival Attila the Hun – and do so in an instant.

Not so long ago, however, women didn’t even have much choice about whether and when to have children.  Birth control was marginally adequate well into the late 1960’s.  Adoptions were primarily conducted in secret, the children often living in orphanages. Abortions were illegal and many times resulted in terrible consequences for the woman.

Because courageous women and men fought for reproductive rights, adequate birth control, legal abortion and open adoption, many more choices are available to women of reproductive age.

Let’s explore some of the choices available to women now, so they may take charge of their own body and choose the time and circumstances ideal for them.

•  Birth Control

1. The Pill
2. Condoms
3. IUD
4. Vaginal film

•  The ‘Morning After’ pill.  This pill actually prevents conception from occurring.  It is available to any woman who may have had unprotected sex or otherwise feels she may be at risk of becoming pregnant (such as a broken condom).
• Adoption.  Women’s Health Services, through Adoption Choices of Northern California, offers a wonderful open adoption program.  Expectant mothers who feel their best choice is adoption can choose the parents for her baby.  This service is done with compassion and dignity for all involved.
• Pregnancy Termination.  Contrary to publicity by crisis pregnancy centers, abortion only comprises about 3% of total services by those clinics who offer them.  (The Cinic! In Grass Valley does not perform abortions, but can refer to an affiliate clinic who will)

Men should be included in this conversation.  After all, family planning affects their lives as well.  The more involved they become in supporting reproductive choice and health, the more their voices will be heard.  Although a male birth control pill is currently being tested, it is not yet ready to be marketed. In a study by the Kaiser Family Foundation, 71% of men stated they would consider some form of birth control.  Of those, a surprising 66% said they would be willing to take an oral contraceptive.  For those men who don’t wish to have children, or already have the family they want, a vasectomy is another available option.

Many of the young women who visit The Clinic! in Grass Valley are thrilled to find out they are expecting. For others, adoption or even termination is their choice.  Access to education and accurate science-based information is the key to preserving the dignity and reproductive rights of all.

It is challenging enough to raise a family under the best of circumstances.  Those who do have the support and gratitude of each of us.  For others, starting a family may be something they are absolutely not prepared to do.  It is still a woman’s body, and her choice. She should be treated with respect for her circumstance and allowed to use facts and education as a guide to her own informed decision about when or if she wishes to start a family.

An interesting read about how reproductive choice is the best way to move nations out of poverty – from Forbes Magazine, March, 2012.

Forbes   http://www.forbes.com/sites/meghancasserly/2012/03/30/contraception-womens-earnings-martha-bailey-healthcare/   Magazine article March 2012.

 

“I have met thousands and thousands of pro-choice men and women. I have never met anyone who is pro-abortion.”

                                                            Hillary Clinton

 

How timely Hillary’s quote is, considering that last fall, the San Francisco City Board of Supervisors voted to pass an ordinance prohibiting crisis pregnancy centers from engaging in misleading advertising.  One of the most common false statements issued from crisis pregnancy centers is that Planned  Parenthood, or groups such as Citizens for Choice, are ‘pro-abortion’. 

Crisis pregnancy centers, according to the ordinance, routinely advertise that they offer comprehensive pregnancy services, including those for pre and post abortion counseling. The implication is that they provide education to clients about all choices available to them.  In fact, many crisis pregnancy centers fail to inform that they don’t actually offer any abortion services or referrals to abortion providers, until such time as the client is in their clinic undergoing ‘counseling’.   It is this type of omission that is the basis for the claim that centers mislead through false advertising. 

The United States District Court for Northern California will be hearing a case in which First Resort, Inc. a ‘Crisis Pregnancy Center’, has filed a lawsuit claiming that the recently passed ordinance is a violation of their right to free speech. 

The court typically takes a dim view of misleading advertising, including false claims.  Expressing an opinion, or viewpoint, is a constitutional right enjoyed by each of us, and is protected by the First Amendment.  Whether or not one is pro-choice or deeply opposed to abortion is a personal decision. 

What should not be protected by the First Amendment are false claims, especially those that purport ‘scientific proof’ of an opinion.  Some egregious examples of claims and actions made by Crisis Pregnancy Centers:

• 30 percent of women who get abortions die within the first year due to complications. (In fact, the risk of death from childbirth in the first 20 weeks of pregnancy is 11 times greater than that of abortion – after 20 weeks, the risk is the same).

 

• At one CPC technicians tap out “messages” from unborn babies (“hi mommy and daddy”) as they perform ultrasounds, making the inference that the first trimester fetus can recognize and even speak to its parents.

 

 

• A Jewish woman who posed as a pregnant woman as part of an investigation was told at five centers that she wouldn’t go to heaven unless she converted to Christianity.

 

• One center told the caller that there is an “extremely high, increased risk of breast cancer” that “can be as much as an 80% increase depending upon how the risk factors fall into place.” (The National Institute of Health finds no connection whatsoever between abortion and any kind of cancer)

 

 

• 91% of “services” at Planned Parenthood in 2010 were abortions. (The actual number is 3%)

 

• The ‘morning after’ pill causes abortion.  (The fact is that it merely prevents conception from occurring at all)

 

First Amendment rights must always be protected.  However, abuse of facts while attempting to hide behind constitutional law should never be tolerated in a civilized society.  Many religious – based ‘pregnancy centers’ use the term ‘moral obligation’.  In what way is it ‘moral’ to make up false statements and call them facts?  In my experience, that is called lying.

We will be closely following this case in the United States District Court, and will update our readers as we get more information.

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Visit www.citizensforchoice.org for more information on low or no-cost birth control, information about reproductive justice and more.

Frederika Zylstra is a professional copywriter with The Written Word Professional Copywriting, and is the Word Wizard for Wild Women for Business.  One of her many hats is writing blogs for business and non-profits.

“No woman can call herself free who does not control her own body.”

― Margaret Sanger

Margaret Sanger, who is considered the ‘founding mother’ of Planned Parenthood, understood this concept decades ago.  In the intervening years between her statement (somewhere around 1924) and now, much has changed for women.  But, is it enough?

Consider the recent statement issued by the New Hanover County (North Carolina) Board of Commissioners Chairman Ted Davis, when he explained his vote to turn down a state family planning grant that would cover contraceptive supplies along with other medical services related to family planning.  “If these young women were responsible people and didn’t have sex to begin with, we wouldn’t be in this situation”

Uh, Ted?  Just who do you think these women are having sex with?

The now infamous and extremely ignorant statement by Rush Limbaugh, in which he voiced his opinion that college student Susan Fluke must be a slut because she testified before Congress that she feels birth control is an essential health care inclusion created an uproar across social media sites.  His take on her eloquent speech?  That she wants taxpayers to ‘pay her to have sex.’  He and a host of other conservative political pundits and lawmakers seem to feel our government shouldn’t require insurance companies to include contraception as a part of health coverage. Their argument?  It is too expensive, and the taxpayers shouldn’t have to pay for it.

So, along those lines, let’s explore the actual costs of contraception vs. the cost of pregnancy, delivery and raising a child.

According to Planned Parenthood, the average yearly cost of the Birth Control Pill is between $150- $600.  Condoms (used twice per week on average) cost approximately $150 per year.

Web M.D. reports that the estimated cost of delivery alone is $6,000 – $8,000 for a low risk pregnancy; the cost increases exponentially if it is high risk. Prenatal care averages $2,000.

Prenatal vitamins, maternity clothes, crib, baby clothes, diapers, baby monitor, car seat, childbirth classes and baby wipes can add a whopping $5,000 in just the first year.

A couple using no birth control has an 85 percent chance of becoming pregnant in one year. The USDA estimates that on average, middle-income couples spend around $12,500 per year, per child.  Over an 18 year period, this adds up to $225,000.

The argument that contraceptive coverage is ‘too expensive’ just doesn’t hold water.  What is too expensive for our society is having unplanned and unwanted pregnancies, children who are raised on welfare or in foster homes, some of whom later become a further economic burden to society by committing crimes and even ending up in prison.

Who do these members of Congress and the conservative media think will cover the cost for that?

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Visit www.citizensforchoice.org for more information on low or no-cost birth control, information about reproductive justice and more.

Frederika Zylstra is a professional copywriter with The Written Word Professional Copywriting, and is the Word Wizard for Wild Women for Business.  One of her many hats is writing blogs for business and non-profits.